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How to Find Your Edge of The Point Of No Return
ejaculation control / first 10 mins / magical 20-minute mark / male sexuality

How to Find Your Edge of The Point Of No Return

When you experience uncontrolled, involuntary, premature ejaculation within the first 3 minutes of inserting your penis into a woman’s vagina, you do so because you are unable to detect the signs of oncoming ejaculation, your Point Of No Return (PONR) …

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Making a Conscious Ejaculation Decision
building sexual energy / ejaculation control / magical 20-minute mark / male sexuality

Making a Conscious Ejaculation Decision

Building the mental fortitude to acknowledge, and then follow through on your decision to hold off ejaculating during masturbation, is the all-important first step in controlling your ejaculation during sexual intercourse with a woman.

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A Proper Fucking Defined
body basics / building sexual energy / male sexuality

A Proper Fucking Defined

A properly fucked woman is an orgasmic woman. Regardless of whether or not she can cum during intercourse, every woman (and every man) benefits from a good, solid fucking.

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Unwanted Ejaculation VS Premature Ejaculation
confidence / ejaculation control / male sexuality

Unwanted Ejaculation VS Premature Ejaculation

At the tender age of 18, with my first full-fledged sexual relationship with the woman of my dreams, I discovered that I was a premature ejaculator.

During the intervening 40+ years, I have also discovered that I was not a premature ejaculator: I simply did not know how to control my ejaculation.

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How Soon is Too Soon to Ejaculate Before You Meet Her?
body basics / building sexual energy / ejaculation control / male sexuality

How Soon is Too Soon to Ejaculate Before You Meet Her?

Yes, ejaculating before sex with her can help with ejaculation control. The question is: how soon before sex should you do this?

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Pro Tips For Tip Conditioning: The “Slow-gasm” Challenge
building sexual energy / ejaculation control / first 10 mins

Pro Tips For Tip Conditioning: The “Slow-gasm” Challenge

Train with these exercises to build stamina, increase sexual energy capacity by keeping the stimulation as high as possible, without ejaculating.

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How to Build Sexual Energy, Soprano-Style
building sexual energy / confidence / ejaculation control / first 10 mins

How to Build Sexual Energy, Soprano-Style

Building sexual energy be like… what he said! You won’t just stick it in and pump away after hearing this sage advice.

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3 Pillars of Ejaculation Control
ejaculation control / first 10 mins / magical 20-minute mark / male sexuality

3 Pillars of Ejaculation Control

I focus on the three fundamental pillars of ejaculation control:
Mental, Physiological, Technical.
All three of these key aspects to ejaculation control must be understood, and combined for success.

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Ejaculation Control When Intercourse Is New
building sexual energy / ejaculation control / first 10 mins / male sexuality

Ejaculation Control When Intercourse Is New

Learning to control your ejaculation when sex and intercourse are new, is no different than learning to hold your pee as a kid, or ride a bike, kick a ball. Nothing can prepare a man for the sensation of being inside a woman’s…

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Are There Benefits to PE & Struggling for Ejaculation Control?
body basics / building sexual energy / ejaculation control / male sexuality

Are There Benefits to PE & Struggling for Ejaculation Control?

What you now believe to be your greatest weakness – this involuntary pull to the edge of ejaculation, will eventually become your greatest strength.

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