The 10 Essential Elements of Proper Fucking
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What does healthy, connected, passionate, exciting, fulfilling sexual intercourse between a man and a woman look like? Let’s suppose you can control your ejaculation, and you do have a partner who is an excellent sexual match. How would your evening together go?
Let’s start by eliminating everything you’ve ever seen in porn. Then we’ll take away every “love” scene ever made in the movies and on Netflix, where the people are usually still wearing their underwear during intercourse.
What you’re left with is probably nothing. And that’s the problem: There is very, very little modelling proper fucking to be seen, anywhere.
I get letters asking me: How long should I last during sexual intercourse? Is 3-4 minutes of ejaculation control enough? How do you make a girl orgasm during sexual intercourse?
Sexual Intercourse Does Not Mean Ejaculation
The goal of sexual intercourse is to build sexual energy to the point where it begins to overflow from within our bodies in the form of orgasms – hers and yours, but not ejaculation.
The Post-Ejaculatory Man cums a lot during sex, but rarely ejaculates.
As long as you know how to control your ejaculation during sex and intercourse, your goal of creating heat deep within her body so that her lava comes to a boil and pours forth from the mouth of her volcano all night long, can be accomplished.
A Proper Fucking – Defined
To achieve a proper fucking is to luxuriate in the joyous union of your bodies, indulging in physicality with all five senses, sensuously building heat and pleasurable feelings as you both give way to the sexual and emotional energies connecting you.
As such, here are the 10 Essential Elements to Proper Fucking:
- Every proper fuck has a fucker and a fuckee. In this case the man is the fucker, and the woman is the fuckee.
- A proper fucking requires that a man hold his ejaculation inside his body.
- A proper fucking will require him to consistently pull back from the edge of ejaculation and take defensive measures, all night long, right through to the other side of their orgasms.
- A proper fucking will go beyond the Magical 20-Minute Mark.
- A proper fucking will include varied pumping speeds, intensities, angles of trajectory, positions, and if possible, locations, costume changes, music changes, and biological breaks for intake and outflow.
- A proper fucking is comingled and interspersed with sexual stimulation that incorporates all five senses.
- The focus of a proper fucking is on the energetic exchange which results from the most powerful connection we know: a man’s penis plugged into a woman’s vagina, completing the circuit of sexual energy between them.
- A proper fucking will flow with the natural rise and fall of sexual energy, moving through peaks and valleys of emotional states and orgasmic intensity.
- A proper fucking will short-circuit the mind and liberate the soul, allowing both partners to freely express their authentic desires and feelings spontaneously, in the moment.
- A proper fucking is an exploration, a journey of discovery without a destination, like a Sunday afternoon road trip, rolling along without care or concern, enjoying the ride, taking your time, stopping off at unknown and unexpected detours and side roads along the way.
Notice I didn’t say anything about ejaculating?
Every Fuck Is Not Going To Be A Proper Fuck
It is not feasible to achieve a proper fucking every time you have sexual intercourse.
But if you are having casual sex, just starting a relationship, or have a FWB kind of sexual relationship, then proper fucking is your standard. And even if you do partake in lunchtime quickies in the broom closet, these are not ejaculation-worthy events.
Personal Milestone #3 is ending sex and sexual intercourse without ejaculating. Once begin to raise your threshold for ejaculation beyond the Magical 20-Minute Mark, you set yourself a new standard for how much sexual energy you require before you will be ready to ejaculate.
It’s not that broom closet quickies are no longer fun. They are in fact more fun, because you know they are going to be followed up with a proper fucking later that evening, or in the week.
The quickies are now ways to raise the sexual energy in both of you, before the real event.
If you are in a long-term relationship, then certainly proper fucking is what you do most of the time. Having sexual interaction throughout the day and/or week is to be expected, but again, you only ejaculate when you are able to build sexual energy to suitable levels.
And “Yes!” There will always be a place in your life for jumping behind a bush with your girl and just pumping one out without care or concern!
The big difference being, now that you are a Post-Ejaculatory Man, you are able to manage your sexual energy consciously, pumping one out because you choose to, not because you cannot control your ejaculation.
